ththth (US)
I'm a girl. I support "naked" marriage. Marriage is between us, if we think "naked" marriage is what it should be, then that is what it will be. We are in the 21st century, don't put too much pressure on men to buy you house and diamond ring. You don't have jobs? You cannot buy it yourself? I have job, my boyfriend also has job. We don't have enough money for a house right now but that does not means we won't get married. We will buy a house TOGETHER! Meaning we both put our money together to buy a house. This is not the man's duty; this is both people's duty to build a family together.
Here in New York, many people rent a house, since buying is too expensive. Who said he needs to buy me a diamond ring? I'm fine with any type of ring. Who says we need expensive cars? Here people take the train to work everyday. Cars can be bought later. Remember the wife needs to work too and not always be demanding the husband's money.
Li Haiyang and Jia Jingyu holds a novel subway train wedding in Wuhan, central China on July 20, 2013.[Photo/IC] |
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